Living With A Disability Every Day

PLG Property Finder Lisa's personal insight on growing up around disability and why accessible family homes can transform independence

A Different Perspective on Home

Growing up, disability was never something that felt unusual to me. My twin sisters were diagnosed with cerebral palsy within their first year, and from that point onwards, it simply became part of everyday life for our family.

My mum fought incredibly hard for them. She pushed for them to attend mainstream school because she knew they were capable of it, and over time the schools adapted around them. Ramps were installed, access was considered and adjustments became part of normal life for us.

Looking back now, I think that experience shapes a huge part of how I approach my role today.

Working at PLG often gives me a different perspective when speaking with families because I understand that property is rarely just about the building itself. It is about independence, routine, family life and how somebody experiences their day-to-day environment.

There Is No “One Size Fits All”

One thing I have learned both personally and professionally is how individual accessibility really is.

People can sometimes think about accessibility as though there is a standard solution, but every person’s needs are different and every family functions differently too. What works well for one person may not work in the same way for somebody else.

That is why the home environment matters so much.

Growing up, our own house had to adapt as my sisters got older. We eventually built an extension so one of my sisters could have a downstairs bedroom and bathroom because carrying her upstairs every day simply became unrealistic. My other sister remained more mobile and continued managing the stairs independently.

You naturally adapt as a family over time because you have to find ways to make everyday life work better.

What I probably understand more now, working within this sector, is how much difference the right environment can make not only physically, but mentally as well.

Something as simple as being able to move comfortably around your own home, shower independently or make yourself a drink can have a huge impact on somebody’s confidence and sense of independence. Those are things many people understandably take for granted.  

Looking Beyond the Property Itself

From my perspective, one of the most important parts of this work is taking the time to properly understand how somebody lives day to day.

In complex situations, it can be difficult to fully understand somebody’s routines, frustrations or wider challenges from a short assessment alone. The more conversations you have with families and the more time spent understanding how they interact with their environment, the clearer the wider picture often becomes.

For many families, it is not just about accessibility. It is about creating a space where everyone can function more comfortably together.

We regularly see situations where people are trying to manage within environments that no longer work for their needs. A good outcome is not simply about adding equipment into a property. It is about creating a home that supports independence, improves practicality and helps day-to-day life feel more manageable for the whole family.  

Seeing the Difference First-Hand

One of the first projects I saw after joining PLG really stayed with me.

It was the first time I properly understood the scale of what the team can achieve for a family. Seeing dedicated therapy space, accessible living areas and environments designed entirely around how someone lives day to day made me realise how much the right property can improve how a family functions overall.

Because when you have lived around disability your whole life, you understand how exhausting everyday tasks can become when an environment is working against you rather than supporting you.

You also become more aware of the emotional pressure that can sit behind those situations.

I remember speaking with a client’s mum recently and immediately recognising how overwhelmed she felt. Having grown up around similar situations myself, I think that experience naturally helps me approach conversations with a greater level of understanding and empathy. Sometimes simply taking the time to properly listen can make a significant difference to understanding what a family is managing day to day.  

What “Getting It Right” Really Means

For me, getting it right is about much more than the property itself.

It is about creating environments that allow people to live more comfortably, more independently and with greater confidence in their day-to-day routines. It is also about helping families function better together within the same space.

One thing my mum always used to say was:

“Don’t moan about getting old, it’s denied to many”

That mindset has probably stayed with me throughout my life.

Working in this sector constantly reminds you not to take everyday things for granted. Circumstances can change very quickly for anyone, and this quote has stayed with me because it reminds me how easily we can take independence, mobility and ordinary daily routines for granted.

That is why the right property matters so much. Not because it is impressive or technical, but because the right environment can give people back comfort, confidence, dignity and a better everyday life.

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